The aim of this book is to enlighten anyone who reads it what dementia and Alzheimer’s can do to the family if it is not prepared and do not work together and get outside support from sources willing to help like Alzheimer’s Association. Also with new Hippa laws if not wrote down exactly how you want to be taken care most likely, it won’t be done and there is nothing can be done about it. The old saying about not looking into the future is so wrong, because you should plan if something bad like this was to strike. Your health and well-being is so important. God lets us stay alive so let us thank Him for each moment and be grateful for each moment we are granted to spend with our loved one and cherish all the good memories. This is my story and my struggle with mom’s Alzheimer’s. Freda Harrison