“When we find our person, the one we want to take it to the next step the marriage. Some have children first, live with them first all part of life and everyone situation is different. But the end goal if you’re seeking it, is marriage. Commitment everyone wants to belong to someone even if they must share.”
– an excerpt from the book
ARPress is honored to publish “I Wanted The Wedding, Not The Marriage” by LaVetta Price. This book is now available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and the ARPress website.
“I Wanted The Wedding, Not The Marriage” by LaVetta Price is a deeply personal and emotionally candid exploration of relationships, marriage, and the often-unspoken truths that lie beneath the surface of romantic commitment. Through a combination of storytelling, reflection, and commentary, the book examines the difference between the fantasy of a perfect wedding and the complex realities that follow after the vows are spoken. Rather than presenting a traditional romance narrative, Price invites readers into a raw and honest discussion about love, betrayal, trust, spirituality, and personal growth.
The book moves between autobiographical reflections, relationship insights, and broader perspectives on marriage across cultures and religions. Price shares her experiences with honesty, revealing both the joys and struggles that can arise within relationships. Ultimately, the work encourages readers—both men and women—to reflect on their own expectations about love and commitment, and to recognize that genuine relationships require far more than the excitement of a beautiful ceremony.
At its heart, I Wanted The Wedding, Not The Marriage explores the emotional journey of a woman navigating the complicated realities of love and marriage. The narrative reflects on the early excitement that often accompanies relationships—the romantic gestures, the anticipation of the wedding day, and the belief that love alone will sustain a lifelong partnership. Yet as the story unfolds, the author reveals how relationships can become strained by betrayal, misunderstandings, emotional conflict, and the pressures of everyday life. Through vivid personal anecdotes, the book illustrates how intuition, personal boundaries, and emotional awareness play crucial roles in recognizing when a relationship is healthy and when it is not.
Throughout the book, Price also reflects on the deeper meaning of commitment. She discusses how the reality of marriage often differs from the idealized dream many people imagine before the ceremony. The book highlights issues such as infidelity, trust, communication, and the emotional toll of unhealthy relationships. Despite these challenges, the narrative ultimately emphasizes resilience and self-respect. Price encourages readers to choose personal growth, faith, and self-love rather than allowing painful experiences to define their future. Through these reflections, the book becomes both a cautionary tale and a guide toward emotional empowerment.
The book also serves as a mirror for self-reflection. It invites readers to question their expectations about love and commitment while encouraging them to develop stronger emotional awareness. Both men and women can benefit from the insights presented in the narrative, as the book challenges readers to examine their roles within relationships and consider how their choices affect others.
Ultimately, the book reminds us that while weddings may symbolize the beginning of a relationship, true love requires honesty, patience, growth, and mutual respect. Through her courageous storytelling, LaVetta Price transforms personal experience into a message of resilience and self-empowerment.
“I Wanted The Wedding, Not The Marriage” by LaVetta Price is now available for purchase via ARPress Bookstore: